Romance Movies Guys Don’t Hate

With Valentine’s Day coming up I asked my husband what romance movies he actually likes. Don’t get me wrong, he has watched MANY romance movies which may actually give him more credibility when it comes to his picks.

  1. 10 Things I Hate About You – Here’s what he had to say ‘It was a good movie’.
  2. Love Actually – We always watch this at the holidays but I think it can really be enjoyed during any winter month. Here’s what he said ‘It has a story for everyone…and some stories for no one.’
  3. Say Anything – I enjoy this more each time I watch it. He says ‘Early 90’s perfection. ‘I don’t have your Firebird keys’. So many quotable lines.’
  4. The 40-Year-Old Virgin – After we discussed this list he immediately rented this movie and watched it (half with me, half by himself.) ‘The most interesting relationships in the movie were among the guys. It’s really about him becoming a person, not just losing his virginity. And Elizabeth Banks is the funniest person in the movie.’
  5. The Princess Bride – This is a classic. Valentine’s Day is a good time of year to bring it out. ‘This movie teaches you when to say ‘As you wish…’ Also proof that ROUSs exist.’
  6. High Fidelity – We clearly like John Cusack. He says, ‘I mean, Jack Black. And the comeback of Lisa Bonet.’

So, there you have it, a few movie options for this lovely holiday. I also love all of these movies…maybe for different reasons than he does.

Have an extraordinary weekend (without even trying)

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What are you up to this weekend?  I am going to a baby shower and bought this as the gift.  I haven’t taken mine off since my son was born over three years ago!  It has helped me stay sane, plus I love the color.

I hope you have a wonderful weekend and here are a few links from around the web:

I can’t wait to see the skeleton twins movie

Nobody knows who sings this song!

I couldn’t stop reading this list, and hope to someday feel #14

Isn’t this headboard so lovely and romantic

I’ve been dreaming of getting these shoes to wear with jeans…why don’t I do it??

The cutest Halloween footprint art!

Angling for this electric tea kettle for a Christmas gift, wouldn’t it be so sweet in the kitchen?

What writers can learn from Goodnight Moon and another favorite bedtime book

An interview with Manhattan’s creator Sam Shaw (we’ve been addicted to this new WGN show!)

Hilarious scared faces in a haunted house (I loathe them and my husband loves them!)

Wednesday Weigh-In – Getting pumped!



I made a goal for myself that I was going to try to make weight loss fun!  There are so many difficult and frustrating things about trying to lose weight but I believe it can also be fun and exciting.

Every morning I come into the office and force myself to use the stairs.  So I started thinking, what could I do to make this more fun?

1. Sing the Rocky theme song in my head.  Who doesn’t get motivated to exercise when they think of that song and that movie.  He was sexy to the ladies and men wanted to be him and everyone remembers the scene where he runs up the stairs exercising!  This really works.  It makes me smile and laugh a little and gets me up the stairs every time.

2. Pretend like someone is chasing you.  And not in the scary ‘I’m going to be attacked’ way but in the fun ‘I’m playing tag and someone’s going to get me!’ way.  Do you remember that feeling of someone running after you and how your stomach goes all oogy and your adrenaline rushes?  I can see it in my kids faces when I chase them, they love it.

3. Imagine your favorite movie about transformation.  I love a good movie about transformation.  Some of my favorites are Love Potion No. 9, The Boyfriend School with Steve Guttenberg (LOL), Girls Just Wanna Have Fun, Dirty Dancing, Miss Congeniality.  Or you can imagine your favorite movie with someone exercising in it.  I like Runaway Bride and The Cutting Edge.  Sorry for the 80s and 90s movie references!  Guys can find ideas here, here and here.  This list is also really funny.

I’m sure I will think of a hundred others as soon as I post this so I’ll keep adding as I think of them.


4. Imagine the fat just melting off your body.  With each step you take, each stair you climb, each weight you lift, imagine the extra fat just slipping away.  That’s what’s happening anyway, right?  Just at a much slower pace than we’d choose.  Imagining that makes me feel sleek and strong and proud.

5. Remember that every second you spend exercising is another second that you are working toward your goal.  It won’t happen overnight but every single moment I spend taking care of myself is, in fact, progress.  This goes for so many things, getting my hair done, taking a shower, taking care of my skin, preparing healthy food, taking the stairs, parking far away from the store.  This falls in line with Roni’s #wycwyc challenge, do what you can when you can, everything is a step in the right direction.

What do you do to help you make the best choices for yourself?  I’d love to hear that as well as any inspiring movies you love!

UPDATE: I lost a few pounds!  It makes me feel good to know that I can do this without counting calories.  I’ve been eating protein combined with healthy carbs, listening to my hunger and fullness and trying to take the stairs and walk a lot!

Heartbreaking news about Robin Williams

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I was one of many heartbroken after hearing the news about Robin Williams.  I am so sad for the place of despair that he had to get to in order to take his own life.  I feel so bad for his family and everyone who knew and loved him.  He sounds like a wonderful person.


I know how much I loved his art.  These pictures are from one of the most pivotal movies in my life.  It seems so silly to feel connected to an actor, someone I only knew through the screen, but I am deeply saddened nonetheless.  The world seemed better with him in it.poet460 deadpoetssociety7986965_f520


Martin Scorsese – The Art of Silence on Vimeo

Silence can be so powerful.  This video was interesting and makes me want to go back and watch The Departed again.

Martin Scorsese – The Art of Silence

via Martin Scorsese – The Art of Silence on Vimeo.